Dating money rules
Do not expect the man to continue to pay for nice dinners and evenings out, even though some men will still pay.
He had taken her to a decent restaurant and they'd had a three-course meal and a bottle of champagne too.If it bothers you that she always wants to go to fancy restaurants and expects you to pay, say something."It may not be the politically correct thing to say, but it's so much better to just be real and acknowledge any weirdness up front," says Esther Boykin, a licensed marriage and family therapist."The financial issues come up right away; men have to assume that they're paying for the first couple of dates," Savoy says. Most agree that the man pays for the first date and often for the next few. If you have a strong preference about who should pay for what, you can initiate a calm conversation in which each of you shares how you prefers to approach the financial part of dating.
If you feel shy about bringing up the subject, you’re not alone.It’s been a great night of drinks, dinner, and conversation, but the evening is coming to a close as the bill is finally brought to the table.