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Yeah in a perfect world that would be the case, but lets be realistic here…
maybe you’ve already emailed every attractive woman you’re interested in within your area… So what about increasing the percentage of women who respond?
The first, and obvious problem is that it’s time consuming to send out more emails, you’re essentially putting in more work to get the same results (just on a larger scale). I’m lazy…I have no desire to sit there all day sending out emails and checking out womens profiles.
You want to make the best first impression you can for your potential match.
Here’s the deal with the messaging thing, a lot of people have their own theories on how it works, what works best, etc. Others try pick-up-artist “negging.” Some send ridiculously long messages about their background and their overall philosophy and what they’re currently doing with their lives.
Some guys think that it’s cool to copy and paste and throw out a message like bait in a lake full of carp. I’d like to say there’s no right or wrong way to message someone (everyone usually has something that works for them), but there is definitely a better way.
This past week alone I’ve gotten enough poorly executed messages to make me want to curl up in a ball of being-alone-forever.
I try not to lose hope that there can be some genuine connections made through meeting someone off of the internet. I have even made several lasting friends from some of my experiences.
The subject line and the picture are the only things a person will look at many times. Ideally one that ties into a common interest but that is really just a bonus.